This is great advice but by “bossy” they mean LIKE a boss. Don’t actually be bossy and try to order people around. XD

But it’s really true. You attract people like yourself. Be better and you’ll attract better people. This goes for romantic relationships as well as friendships. 

This is so, so important. Life is going to constantly throw shit at you and if you stress and focus on every single bad thing that happens you’re going to be miserable. When bad stuff happens to me I always try to find something positive to look at about it, and laugh at the negative. I want to be happy, not sad. Happiness really is a choice.